4. Conflict Goes Unrepaired
Workplace conflict is inevitable, but repair is optional – and when conflict goes unaddressed, negativity festers and impacts how we work. 55% of employees and employers say moments of tension, harm, or conflict often go unrepaired.
Employees describe a culture of silence. One consultant said, “All my friends were fired the day before, and I was supposed to just show up and keep working without anyone acknowledging it.” Another recalled a town hall where the CEO laughed at a question about morale.
Managers cite fear and time constraints. 38% say they’re too busy to address conflict, and another 38% fear making things worse.
Others don’t think the effort is worthwhile. 30% believe issues should resolve themselves, while 26% don’t see it as important. One HR leader told us “A conflict between two employees didn’t get resolved because the supervisor didn’t want to do the paperwork.”
Even when feedback is solicited, it’s often ignored. One HR leader described a pulse survey that led to a generic “we hear you” response, then no follow-up. “I don’t even fill out the surveys anymore,” they said.
Further, inauthentic morale boosters, like pizza parties during layoffs, only deepen the disconnect. One-third of employees say they’ve experienced these “band-aid” solutions during times of high stress. As one HR professional put it, “We needed a tourniquet, not a band-aid.”
Organizations must normalize repair, building workplaces where conflict isn’t avoided, it’s metabolized. Failed projects, layoffs, mistakes, misalignments, and harm will be inevitable. What matters is having the tools and trust to mend them.